Laws of Nature: Snakes N The Grass

There's no need to hate a snake for acting in it's nature. Appreciate them for your knowledge of what they are & how they function. Tough, I know. But very achievable.

It's self preservation, you know how these snakes move, now that you've been bitten. & Yes it hurts to the core, especially because usually the snakes the closest ones to you. Here's the key.

Key is to NEVER FORGET HOW THE BITE FELT!! Don't do yourself an injustice by convincing yourself to forget or ignore them & they're disloyal ways, especially not because you "love" them. Because if love was a factor, a snake would never bite you again, after seeing what the first bite put you thru.

The feeling of betrayal or being stabbed in the back by someone we thought loved us or was a friend. You know, the kind of person who smiles to your face but talks behind your back. The one who you thought had your back, but ended up biting it instead, every chance they get– just like a snake.

I'm sure we have all been in this situation at least once in our lives. And let's be real, it hurts like hell. It's one of those things that we never forget, no matter how much time passes. That feeling of betrayal seeps deep into our bones and stays with us for a long time. But you know what? As much as it hurts, we should never forget it. Never!

Why, you may ask? Well, because that feeling of being backstabbed is a lesson. It's a lesson that teaches us to be more cautious about the people we trust. It's a lesson that teaches us to listen to our instincts and not ignore the red flags. It's a lesson that teaches us the importance of having good, genuine people in our lives.

Remember how it felt when you found out that your friend was talking behind your back, or your partner was cheating? Remember the anger, the disbelief, and the hurt? It's a terrible feeling, isn't it? But let me tell you, that feeling should not go to waste. Use it as a reminder to not let yourself be vulnerable to the same person or the same circumstances again. Use it as a reminder to not make the same mistake twice.

We often tend to forgive and forget when it comes to relations. And while forgiveness is a noble trait, we should never forget how that person made us feel. Because chances are, they will do it again. And again. And maybe even again. We shouldn't let ourselves be constantly hurt by the same prototype person just because we are afraid of losing their love or friendships. People who have your best interest at heart, would never betray you in the first place. Let alone more than once.

But you know what? It's not just about remembering the feeling for our own well-being. It's also about not becoming the snake ourselves. Let's not let our past experiences turn us into bitter, backstabbing people. Let's learn from them and become better family members, lovers & friends ourselves. Let's be someone who people can trust and rely on. Let's not let the actions of a few individuals ruin our faith in humanity and genuine connections.

So, TGBE readers, never forget how it felt when the backstabbing snake bit you. Use it as a lesson to be cautious and to surround yourself with genuine, trustworthy people. But most importantly, use it as a reminder to never become the snake yourselves. Let's spread love and loyalty instead of deceit and betrayal.

Peace, love & GodChalance